Asking yourself what works or doesn’t work for you, in any given situations can lead to clarity in regards to where you are at as well as your future efforts and directions and does away with blaming others for situations you find yourself in.
Blaming circumstances or others weakens and disempowers the self and will not lead to a fulfilled life. Spiritual knowledge tells us that we are responsible for the decisions we have made and the sooner I accept that the better it is for me. When I accept I am responsible it puts the means of change firmly in my hands. It’s good for those around you too as it removes the vibration and atmosphere of blame which cripples progress and moving forward.
Use these questions (what works and what doesn’t work for me?) to evaluate your life and make decisions that allow you to let go and move on.